Wednesday, June 19, 2013
Sunday, June 16, 2013
As adventures go this past week and weekend rate up there as one of the best. Perhaps a little mild kind of adventure as adventures go.
In my travels, I meet a lot of people and make a lot of friends. Now that I am Road-Tripping the USA, I visit friends along the way. A friend that I made in Arizona this past fall, invited me to visit his 'life' for a few days. After leaving Beaver Lake Dam, Arkansas we met up outside of Saint Louis, in Pontoon Beach, Illinois. I got to see inside of his trucks semi cab and even watched WWE Wrestling in a truckers lounge. We met up again a couple days later in his tiny hometown to participate in their annual Summer Fest.
While traveling from Pontoon Beach through Illinois, my tablet kept beeping weather warnings. After spending almost two months in Arkansas with threats of Severe Thunderstorms and Tornados, I have a healthy respect for weather alert beeps. I also have a bit of leftover trauma from mountain top hail and lightening storms that I hiked through while on the Appalachian Trail. Most of the warnings in Illinois were flood warnings and I drove past some very high rivers. Then I saw the wall of rain ahead of me and coming closer, as the drops began to fall, I reached to turn on the windshield wipers and oh my gosh nothing happened....I mean nothing, Momentarily my heart beat stopped, then the downpour hit with full force as motorcycles pulled off and trucks wizzed past. I pulled under a overpass and decided it was best to just sit out the rain. I checked everything I could think of and came up empty. So about half an hour later I carefully pulled by onto the highway amidst drizzels and made my way to the first gas station where there was this really strange black cloud swirling really fast....I ducked into a parking lot and went inside the building. Sfter the storm passed, I made my way to the local Wallyworld and spent the night. The next day I got directions to a repair shop.Luckly and oddly, the motor that lives just above my gas pedal (I never would have looked there) had come loose. Back on the road and on to...
Loogootee, Indiana is truely small town USA! This is a place where the parade has more participants than it does spectators. Where proud 80+ year old men show off their prize tractors from the 1940's and 1950's. Little red haired freckled 3 year old boys just say hello and show off their new shoes to a lady they've never seen before. Where the mussel cars line up with the model t and 1960 chevy trucks . The menonite and amish famillies mill around at same time as young teens in short shorts and cowboy boots. The 2 block long food and vendor stands busy with neighborly visits, lots of lemonaide and fried everything even candy bars.
Ice cream socials, crafty women and youngsters keeping thier hands busy with knitting and crocheting scarves, making cute doorstops out of dressed up bricks. Creating light weight 'cast iron' decorations out of cardboard. Jennifer can't stop taking pictures so she found a way to make these kewl magnets. People here do what they love - Theresa organizes, Deno makes footlong corn dogs and funnel cakes and helped to make this year, especially memorable by getting carnival rides for the first time. Complete with raffles for a 50" flat screened TV and a motorcycle run held by the local VFW to support a local program for disabled vets. Other raffles were set up to help raise money for the community pool fund, to raise money for a women's shelter, another raffle for a Vera Bradley bag (that I won!) And a handmade scarf.
Entertainment came in many forms, 2 young girls (16 &17) made up the Sad Sam Blues Jam...wow! Look them up online. And Terry Lee, an English Harry Conick Jr kind of act complete with local swing dancers - what fun to watch. Wish I could dance like that. I can't recall listening to so much oldies music in a very long time. Oh yeah and the fire department set up a fire safety program and gave out some really nice fire exstinguishers and fire alarms as door prices. The parade was so old school and the little miss princesses and current as well as past years queens made up a large part of the parade on saturday, riding on the convertables from the car show.
Between washing my van and doing laundry this morning and enjoying helping out a little at the Route 50 Cruisers car show, my friend and I decided to have lunch at the local chinese restaurant. The China Wok is a very clean buffet style chinese restaurant. I needed to order a specially prepared lunch because of my food allergies. But, perhaps the funniest entertainment we had was being waited on by a slim young waitress wearing a lot of eye make-up and streaky blonde hair....omgosh she was so funny but I will save that review for my Trip Advisor restaurant reviews.
I seem to have made a couple friends, people are just very friendly in this town. I enjoyed myself tremendously. There were these two young boys, perhaps around 5 years old that were so cute trying to play air guitar and act like head bangers. I wish I had gotten a picture of that. We played and laughed with them. I sure hope that their Mother gets video of them before they get too old. That will be a good tease as they get older.
The festival wound up with a performance by the Linda Smith Band. Linda has so much energy and is a wonderfully possitive and playful performer. She often came off the stage to dance with children and walk through the crowd. Just a lovely and fun ending to yet another good day spent here. The Mayor was pleasant and available and gave an update to the towns goal of upgrading their swimming pool. The town has some major fund raising and grant writing to accomplish this goal. The festival ended with a bang - literally! As the first fireworks display jumped most in the crowd.
Sundays in Loogootee are quiet church and family days. The festival will be a memory to be shared at dinner tables tomorrow as I say my final 'farewells' and head East on Route 64.
If you are in the area in July, I hear that they have a local Catfish Festival which I can only imagine will be a great time.
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Hi all. I have made a few blogging decisions. Aren't you all just so exited to hear that? So first off, I set a new goal and I am going to send out new blog posts on Wednesdays and on Sundays for the next two months! And secondly I am cleaning up my internet presence and on next Monday I will be deleting my Facebook account! I am on all things Google and that includes Google+ .
I am excited to give myself a schedule and my Samsung Galaxy Tab 2 Mother's Day present from my son is so very helpful, this morning, I got myself a Verbatim bluetooth keyboard to go with it. Omgosh it is so much easier than the old typing on the teeny tiny Huawei Android cellphone.
One of my Full-time RVer buddies sent an email yesterday with some requests for blog posts....a wonderful idea! Thanks Dianne. So I would love to hear what my other readers and friends want to hear....please comment or send me an email. This could be a fun way to inspire me to write more.
My Facebook decision - well, I have been annoyed with Facebook since practically the beginning. Along with daily reminders of who doesn't like or include me in thier lives, postings from people I hardly know that I can't get rid of, and now drive by commercials labeled 'suggestions' grrrr. A family member 'friend' requested some privacy from all thier Facebook 'friends' and the software on my tablet wouldn't let me comply....so I'm done. Done done done, like that Thanksgiving turkey. If you know me personally and want to keep in touch, please email me and we can keep up that way or on Google+. Otherwise, please follow my blog. There are many ways to do that using Apps that are like the old Google reader, RSS feeds, or sign up to follow me through Blogger or email.
Please be patient as I work to improve my blog pages over the next few weeks.
Thursday, June 6, 2013
In most everyone's life there is the excitement and anxiousness of a moving day...in the life of Fulltime RVers and Nomadic types there are many more. My campground volunteer friends Dee and Walter had yet another moving day experience yesterday - thier park, Beaver Dam Site near Eureka Springs, Arkansas is beautiful. You can even camp on a lake here. And they say the trout fishing is amazing!
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
Maybe its 5 times recently that I've woken up with some lyrics to a song stuck in my head or in my dreaming memory. Each time its the same song and it starts on the same phrase - "...tell me why I, never seem to make you happy though God (heaven) knows I try.... make up to brake up thats aaall we do. First you love me then you hate me thats a game for fools..." I lay in bed waking up and knowing that this is about a past relationship (and borders on some other peoples relationships that I've seen recently.) I tend to be a long-term relationship person, even with major issues I try to keep improving myself and my relationships. I don't give up easily - which, perhaps has annoyed former partners or maybe even family members that may have been unable to say that they didn't want to be with me and end it all quick and clean? Of course some people feel more alive with drama beating down thier door, I've been too close to that a few times.
Back to lyrics and dreams - after my divorce, I was in a 17 year on again off again relationship with a man I loved very much. I guess he didn't feel the same, but hey Lesa is an okay person, he may have thought, so why change anything.
In my few years of life, I have learned a bit about myself. Like I give people a lot of rope to hang themselves with...I mean, I'm not a fighter, I was taught not to be at a rather young age. So if you want to fight or argue, I listen carefully and wait to see whats going to happen, because actions always speak lowder than words. If I get angry I usually get teary eyed first and its a long time before I explode. I am a double cancerian too and I am very emotional. I don't lie well, I'm no good at keeping secrets and I like to live genuinely (authentic, transparent, open)... I don't see any reason to lie, cheat, manipulate... if someone asks me a question, I answer it and generally don't wonder "why" they asked it.
Anyway. I trusted this man to protect me and care for and about me for years, even after he proved time and again that he had a weak charecter. He was and probably still is a dreamer, though less of a 'get er done' kinda guy. Super talented, amazingly creative, a good story teller and patient instructor (well not so much with my mathmatic 'handicap' - not really a hanicap I just don't 'get' math). I loved him. My heart was broken. I was depressed, I gained weight, I cried all the time, I was devistated and had physical chest pains for a long time. I learned to not trust my own judgement as I learned the truth about his other life and women, the humiliation of all our friends knowing except me... More lyrics - "I wondered what was wrong with me..." Cheating. I don't understand. If you want to be with someone new, just end the thing you've got going. Wouldn't it be easier, simpler to not have to lie or hide stuff.... I just don't get it. Anyway, now, if I think of it, I feel sad another death of a dream.
Of course I moved. And moved on. Changed cities, states even. Distanced myself from that life, those friends and aquaintences...those daily remminders of not being smart enough to know or sexy enough to keep his interest or good enough to be wanted. Time and distance helped. And then, one day you wake up with song lyrics stuck in your head....
and rain drops rolling down the window